Guest Post: The 5 Love Languages

(This post is brought to you by my lovely bride, Connie. This is her first post on this blog and I’m encouraged and challenged by her earnest desire to seek God and honor Him above all things.)

Anyone who has been in a committed relationship will realize that each person has different ways to feel loved, and usually those two people don’t share the same way. The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts is a book that explains the five most common ways to feel loved. Daniel and I are no exception to the differences most people face. While my love language is acts of service, Daniels is words of affirmation or gifts. Recently, Daniel mentioned in passing that he would love a gauge for the propane tank. I bought it for him, and couldn’t wait for him to get home so I could surprise him with it. I’m terrible with surprises, I want to give the gift right away. As I sat through the long afternoon hours until he arrived home, I was practically dancing with anticipation, not easy to do with a cranky baby.

It made me think of how we should be with God. We should dance with anticipation, eager to be with Him and present him with gifts. We should want to be with him as soon as possible. Our every thought should be on how we can best please God, how we can glorify Him in our every day lives. A gas gauge is such a small thing. How much more is five minutes in prayer? A chapter of the Bible? Discussing Him with a friend?

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. (Deuteronomy 6:5)

 

Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ. (Colossians 3:23, 24)

  • http://www.kenholt.net Ken Holt

    Thanks for a well put reminder Connie

  • Sharmaine

    That is a great way to describe the fire we should have for God-an anticipatory dance :) Ironically, after 10 years of marriage, My husband and I are just now learning each others love languages and realizing how in the dark we were about each other. It makes me wonder how we survived this long! I found myself wondering “what is God’s love language? Have I been speaking to Him in a way that He understands the love I have for Him?”
    Your post is a good reminder of how we should never stop thinking of how to please our significant others ( spouse & God). I hope you will contribute more to Daniel’s blog-I think it’s very nice to see the views from both husband and wife perspectives :)